『讓主居首位』(13) －『在孩子的敎養上』

“That He May Have the First Place” (13) - “The Raising and Admonition of Children”

經文：弗6：1-4，西3：20-21，箴13：24，23：13-14，25，1：8-9

Scriptures: Ephesians 6:1-4, Colossians 3:20-21, Proverbs 13:24, 23:13-14, 25, 1:8-9

背誦經文：你們作兒女的，要在主裏聽從父母，這是理所當然的。 2-3 「要孝敬父母，使你得福，在世長壽。」這是第一條帶應許的誡命。 4 你們作父親的，不要惹兒女的氣，只要照著主的教訓和警戒養育他們。(弗6：1-4)

Memory Verse: Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother,” which is the first commandment with promise: “that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.  And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord. (Ephesians 6:1-4)

A.                                               是基督化家庭的關鍵原則

    A.              “                                                          ” is the key principle for establishing the framework of a Christian family.

 － 基督是我家之主

 -  Christ is the Lord of my household.

B.         聖經中關乎父母與子女的敎導

    B.               The teachings in the bible concerning the roles of parents and children

a.                    兒女方面 - 要          與            .

            a     From the children’s perspective -              and             .

－你們作兒女的，要凡事聽從父母，因為這是主所喜悅的。(西3：20)

  Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is well pleasing to the Lord.  (Colossians 3:20)

－你們作兒女的，要在主裏聽從父母，這是理所當然的。 2-3 「要孝敬父母，使你得福，在世長壽。」這是第一條帶應許的誡命。(弗6：1-3)

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother,” which is the first commandment with promise: “that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth. (Ephesians 6:1-3)

b.        父母方面 - 要             與                .

            b     From the Parent’s perspective – to                      and to             .

－你們作父親的，不要惹兒女的氣，恐怕他們失了志氣。(西3：21)

Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged. (Colossians 3:21)

－你們作父親的，不要惹兒女的氣，只要照著主的教訓和警戒養育他們。(弗6：4)

And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord. (Ephesians6:4)

－不忍用杖打兒子的，是恨惡他；疼愛兒子的，隨時管教。箴13：24

He who spares his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him promptly.  (Proverbs 13:24)

C.         實行上的三個重要的原則

    C.      Three important principles in execution

a.                    相愛 - 藉著            .

            a.    Love one another - through             .

b.        成長 - 藉著           .

            b.   Grow - through               .

c.        傳承 - 藉著                .

            c.   Passing down - through                .

 

回饋問題：

Feedback Questions:

（為人父母者）( for the parents)

1.     聽完這篇信息，你覺得自己在敎養孩子上有什麼需要調整的？

1      After listening to this message, do you feel that there are any areas concerning the raising and admonition of your children that need adjustments?

2.     過去在敎養孩子上遇到最大的困難是什麼？這篇信息如何幫助了你？有什麼具體行動？

2      In time pass, what was your greatest challenge in the raising and admonition of your children?  How has this message helped you?  Do you have any practical actions?

 

（為人兒女者）( for the children)

1.     聽完這篇信息，你覺得自己對父母的態度什麼需要調整的？

1      After listening to this message, do you feel that there are any attitudes toward your parents that need adjustment?

2.     過去在聽從與孝敬父母上最難的是什麼？這篇信息如何幫助了你？有什麼具體行動？

2      In time pass, what were some of the most difficult areas concerning obeying and honoring your parents?  How has this message helped you?  Do you have any practical actions?